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Sunday Musings - April 30, 2023

4/29/2023

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Sunday Musings - April 30.2023
Hate - justice’
 
October 27, 2018 was the day Robert C Bowers gunned down 11 fellow humans at the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania not far from where I once lived.  1640 days later the trial of Mr. Bowers began.  
 
The attorneys for Mr. Bowers will state that he lives with schizophrenia and structural and functional brain impairments.  He had agreed to plead guilty if he could be assured of life in prison and not the death penalty.   In Pennsylvania the death penalty is a possibility if he is found guilty and mentally competent.
 
I recall gathering shortly after the shooting with others at Temple Shalom in Wheeling, WV for a service led by Rabbi Joshua Lief to honor those who died as well as all those affected by the shooting and to reaffirm the commitment to respond to this hate crime with love; a commitment which was an echo of that of the leadership of the Tree of Life Synagogue.   Since that commitment many have worked tirelessly to end hate; to end the long history of many of we humans to deposit self-worth coins based on being better than, brighter than, more moral than, richer than, having bigger guns than, having different skin pigmentation than, or via some other perceived or invented construct.  Hate is, after all, borne out of fear one is not worthwhile as an equal member of the human race; as a fellow traveler on this planet, we call earth; in this solar system.
 
Ironically, the inability to accept that one is intrinsically worthwhile as part of the whole could be considered a mental limitation/illness which might or might not sometimes concretely fall within the parameters of the symptoms which are listed in the official Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM 5- TR) or the ICD-10 - International Classification of Mental and Behavioral Disorders. Although in some cases there are tests which can identify a part of the brain which is not functioning thus negating the ability to have a shared reality, in many cases, one can have many so called experts offer different opinions about the mental ability of a particular person at a particular point in time.  The attorney for Mr. Bowers and the prosecutors will, I suspect offer conflicting experts who will testify either that Mr. Bowers had a history of hating Jewish people and did with malice aforethought plan and execute worshipers at the Tree of Life Synagogue or is mentally ill.   
 
There are those survivors of the murders who might agree that justice demands at least two eyes for the permanent closing of 22 eyes.   There are others who will question how it is that killing will stop killing; how discounting the humanness of yet another person - even the one who caused the 11 deaths - demonstrates that violence is not the solution to fear that hides behind hate.
 
I have no knowledge, other than what I have read, of why Mr. Bowers could not, and cannot self-identify as an equal member of a larger body we call the human race; why Mr. Bowers cannot accept in killing others he kills a part of himself.  We do, of course, know that the human brain is amazingly well designed with many parts.  Just as is true with many of our person made devices such as the cell phones and this computer on which I am typing, there are many connections in the brain which can be interrupted by a variety of factors.  It is not surprising that a finely tuned instrument such as the human brain malfunctions in a way which prevents a shared reality - an inability to recognize and accept one’s kinship with all others.  It is magical that the electrical firing of neurons ever occurs in the order necessary for a shared reality.   Mental illness labels such as schizophrenia or functional brain impairment frequently do not identify the precise reason for the misfiring of neurons.  I do believe that if the brain is functioning well without a neurological disorder or the internalization of fear and “fake news” we humans know we are all interdependent cousins.  We all belong to each other.  Killing another is a form of self-amputation of a necessary part of ourselves.   
 
Just as we have increasingly recognized that we need loving, safe, secure memory care facilities for those suffering from dementia we need more loving, well-staffed, secure places for all those unable to recognize and accept our shared reality; the fact that we are all parts of each other. Clearly Mr. Bowers deserves such compassionate care as does each of those directly and indirectly affected by tragic events such as occurred at the Tree of Life Synagogue in 2018; similar evens which have. been repeated 17 times so far in 2023 (PBS.org April 21. 2023).
 
Ironically, the leaders of the factories which manufacture assault type weapons in the United States may suffer from the same basic malaise as does Mr. Bowers; the belief that more profit and, thus, larger salaries which will purchase more stuff which pollute the earth and the minds further distancing the owners from themselves and each other will guarantee self-worth and inner peace.
 
If we want to end violence; if we in the United States want to end mass killings in the United States; if we want to greatly reduce the murders which are sadly a daily occurrence in many of our cities; if the United States wants to increase the number of workers; if United States wants to reduce depression and all symptoms of disconnection then we must quit using all forms of violence in response to violence.  We must get honest about the fact that we have designed a nation which judges the disconnectedness of some and honors or even celebrates the disconnectedness of others.   We must quit acting as if the contributions of some of us is valuable and others not valuable. If we want to end violence, we must quit pretending that violence only hurts if it is physical violence.  If we want to reduce violence, we must honor the sacredness of all while compassionately caring for those unable to experiences our shared interdependence.
 
Written April 30, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Sunday Musings - April 23, 2023

4/22/2023

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Sunday Musings - April 23, 2023
 
Priorities
 
Last weekend several of us gathered in Canton, Texas for my younger brother’s 80th birthday. His two children, their wives and their three adult children, three of his four siblings, and his son-in-law were able to travel from the Tulsa, Denver, Wheeling, WV, Nashville and Houston areas to celebrate the birthday of this extraordinary man.  All of us were blessed to be healthy enough, able to block out time and allocate some our financial resources to make the trip a priority.   One sibling was not able to find someone to care for her animals and, thus, sadly was unable to be present in person.
 
The fact that it was not only my brother’s 80th, but that his transplanted kidney quit working were certainly stark reminders of what all of us always know: “We are only promised this moment.”  Yet we often act as if we have endless moments to do what is important.  When young, we expect to have many moments even though all of us have borne witness to those so called “premature” deaths of loved ones as a result of accidents, relatively rare aneurysms at age 26 or younger, visitors such as aids, a pandemic such as covid, gun violence and war.
 
Most of us do not have unlimited travel budgets, in home care for our children or other dependents, the ability to work remotely as long as there is internet service, unoppressed servants to clean, do laundry, cook or maintain the perfect Home and Garden quality landscaping, or the luxury of knowing others will assume our community responsibility.   We must show up to do life tasks.  Yet, many of us, in times of life-threatening illness, funerals, or  weddings and significant birthdays carve out relationship time for those far and near.
 
Our paternal Grandmother, Fannie Mae Scott Pickett, most evening after completing farm chores, dinner and dinner cleanup would announce “Now is the time for intellectual, emotional and spiritual chores.”  This could include reading, playing music (instruments and not just the radio or television which she did not have), praying, stimulating conversation, studying or writing letters.  In those days one did not have the internet, affordable long distance phone access or even non-party line phone service.   One wrote notes or lengthy letters sharing news, opinions and concerns.   For a long time, I saved letters I received from her and many others.   A few years ago, I threw away hundreds of letters knowing no one else would want them when I died.  I reread many of them before allowing them to join the “dust to dust” legacy which is the birthright of all.
 
I have always maintained that time is an artificial construct although friends who are physicists often tell me that is not the case.  Time is a mechanism for measuring a distance from point A to point B.  In moving from point, A to point B time does not, one may have noticed, move at a constant speed.  This time of year, in the United States, time is moving very slowing for many students and teachers. From the perspective of nearly 83 years time leaps forward.  Just the other day I was 16 wondering what tools I would select to carve out a future career, love relationships, travel and a long list of potential experiences.   Just yesterday we brought our 52-year-old son home from the hospital. Just ….
 
How do we decide to spend this limited time when we have such a myriad of commitments and possibilities?  Are we investing more in stocks, bonds, retirement accounts, material possessions, or love relationships?  If in love relationships which ones and how often.  
 
Perhaps the best one may hope for is to remember to be honest and intentional about how to spend one’s time budget. One may want to daily remember that only love lives on eternally.  Love is, after all, energy.  It does not die when our earthly body rejoins the earth. It lives on in DNA; in the very dust which feeds the plants which feeds the animals which feeds us humans.
 
I am reminded of “Holy Sonnets: Death be not proud” by John Donne.
The last lines of which read:
 
         “One short sleep past, we wake eternally.
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.”
 
In honoring life, we must honor death which honors life.
 
One moment
One life
One chance to love.
 
Written April 23, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
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Sunday Musings - April 16, 2023

4/13/2023

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Sunday Musings - April 16, 2023
 
Prayer
 
One day recently I was reviewing clinical charts at a mental health center.  Part of my part time job is to review clinical charts from the distance of a fresh perspective to explore whether the assessment and services are capturing the essence of who the person is and what their presenting symptoms are saying.  The body always lets one know what is going on.  Just as a forensic pathologist might allow the body to speak, the clinical records must give one a hint of who this person is and, thus, what assistance/support/treatment might be helpful.
 
Unlike in times past when the shaman, the wise healing elder or the physician who was also a neighbor likely knew the history of the individual, their family and all the members of the community, today trained licensed medical individuals meet with someone whose only prior knowledge may be that they are a member of the same human race.  They may or may be a member of the same, often disconnected, community.    In a few minutes or an hour at best, the clinician is required to arrive at a diagnosis and at least a tentative treatment plan even if that treatment plan is additional tests.  In that brief time the clinician needs to absorb the essence of that person while the “client/patient” must absorb enough of the essence of the clinician to know what to reveal to them.  The clinician, at the end of the appointment, must complete the paperwork which includes at least a tentative diagnosis and a treatment plan which satisfies the needs of the client/patient and the insurance company.   One cannot simply say the person is worn out or the person’s body is very unhappy, or on overload although that might be said in the narrative. 
 
It is amazing that, at any level, this system ever works.  Even when a diagnosis seems evident, one often does not know the reason for those symptoms.  Why has the brain, for example, created an alternative world which we might label hallucinations? Why is the body saying that much of the world is dangerous and thus sending out symptoms of anxiety and depression?  One might, of course, guess that the etiology is a particular trauma such as addiction, abuse, or combat experience.  But still, we do not know the person and why one body survives trauma relatively well and others do not.  We have not captured the essence of the person; the foundation or core of what holds them together.
 
It is an impossible job and, yet some few people get better because of or despite this system.
 
I was listening to an On Being podcast with host Krista Tippett having a conversation with the Episcopal Priest and public theologian Barbara Brown Taylor.   I admire both individuals and do my best to experience what I want to call their wisdom, their sense of the holy.  Holy is a word which seems to resonate with both.  
 
It occurs to me that when I use the word essence in reference to a person or some other part of nature that word is synonymous with the word holy. When I think of the word holy, I think of the word whole.  When I think of the word whole I think of all the parts of the universe which creates the spring flowers, the trees bursting with new growth, the baby eagles which have recently come forth, the new baby of friends of mine, the plants which provide substance to my body, the oxygen which also feeds my body, the touch of a friend, the artistry of mother natures as well as many movements of humans and other creatures I know; all the parts, big and small, which create this process we know as the life form/the dance of the universe.
 
When I meet with another person in any of my various roles - so called professional or personal - it is this sense of the holy with which I must allow myself to connect.  The holy will dance with me - will speak to and with me – if I am receptive.  When we are ill the holy dance may be a bit wobbly or off balance, but it is still there. It may be that the person with whom I am dancing has lost their own sense of the holy. I must invite it to dance once again.  It may be that I have lost or misplaced my own holy dance. In the process of meeting with another person or any part of nature I can call forth that holy dance.
 
Despite all the impediments of our modern health care system in the form of paperwork, threats of not being reimbursed, threats of not covering our legal “asses” it is our privilege - our blessing - to take that leap of faith and dance a holy dance with “each other”.  Only then can we formulate a healing plan - physical, emotional, spiritual - for both the patient/client and the clinician/healer.  Healing is, after all, always mutual if it is to be effective. 
 
Let’s keep dancing.
 
Written April 16, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
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Sunday Musings - April 9, 2023

4/8/2023

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Sunday Musings, April 9, 2023
 
In the Christian tradition, unless one is Orthodox and follows a different calendar, today is celebrated as Easter. It is observed as the day that Jesus is resurrected from the dead after having been hung on the cross until he died and then was buried. 
 
Easter originated as an ancient pagan celebration of the spring equinox.   This year Christian celebration of Easter also occurs during Passover when Jewish people commentate the escape from Egypt.  Rabbi Benjamin Berger, vice president of Jewish education at Hillel International is quoted in USA Today as saying that Passover is known as the festival of freedom - “The freedom of all people.” (USA Today, April 4,2023, “What is Passover… by Mariana Pitofsky.
 
Easter this year also occurs during the month of Ramadan which is the celebration or remembrance of the revelation of the first verses of the Holy book Quran to the prophet Muhammad more than 1400 years ago.
 
Whether one is celebrating/commemorating spring - the rebirth of Mother Nature, the Christian Easter,  the Jewish Passover, or the Muslim Ramadan  one is, at some level, celebrating new life, new possibilities, and a new sense of freedom; freedom from the fear of death; from the fear that one will be imprisoned by one’s mind, another person or persons, an addiction or mental illness; freedom from oppression from one’s neighbor.  
 
Sounds simple. First must come death; death of the lies we tell ourselves; death of the limits we place on ourselves and others; death of the lies or half-truths we tell ourselves about others; death of the illusion or delusion that our concept of God is the only possible right or true one; death of the need to control the reality of others whether that pertains to gender, when life begins and becomes sacred, pronoun identification, end of life decisions or other issues; death of the delusion of private ownership of more resources than one needs; death of the belief that we are in a position to judge others; death of the belief that imprisoning individuals and nations somehow leads to healing; death to the belief that hate is ever the answer.  
 
After death comes the possibility of new life; fresh vision; new growth; a joyful dance celebrating who or what one is.  As I am writing I am looking at Cherry tree blossoms, daffodils, and other signs of rebirth.  I wait patiently for one of these life forms to complain about past death; death to come, their size, color, shape, smell, or any comparison to their neighbors.  Nothing.  I hear none of these complaints. These parts of nature truly know and accept the reality of death and resurrection.   They are the wise teachers at whose feet we can sit today as the rabbits, squirrels, birds – all the creatures - celebrate with them and us.
 
Happy Easter.  Happy Passover.  Happy Ramadan.  Happy spring.
 
Written April 9. 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
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