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Sunday Musings - December 31, 2023

12/31/2023

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Sunday Musings - December 31, 2023
 
Welcome to New Year’s Eve - an ending and the doorway to new opportunities. It seems appropriate that I end this year with the last of my musings on the Beatitudes; the 8th one - verse 10 of Matthew 5 - in what Christian’s call The New Testament
 
“Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”  Sometimes the translation is “Blessed are they that suffer persecution for righteousness for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
 
In many respects this beatitude sums up the previous seven.  The previous seven addressed the behavior of those who, within their human limitations, do their best to obey the teachings of Jesus.  This 8th one reminds we students if we do our best to follow the teachings of Jesus, we may sometimes find that others attempt to silence us; to persecute us.   On the day non-orthodox Christians celebrated the birth of Jesus, December 25, 2023, Pope Francis said: 
 
“Christmas is a call to push for peace and to educate oneself about the arms industry, which foments killing.  People, who desire not weapons but bread, who struggle to make ends meet and desire only peace, have no idea how many public funds are being spent on arms,’ he said.” (cbsmews.com).  
 
It is not likely many Israelis, Palestinians, Russians, or others attempting to prevent further killings by munitions will hear this message as helpful or comforting. They may think the Pope is stupid or, at the very least, clueless about the reality of their lives.  
 
This Pope has not allowed tradition, fear of criticism or even attempts to discredit his prophetic role in the Catholic Church to silence him or otherwise curb the behavior some might find offensive or in opposition to the role of the church.  From the beginning this pope has insisted on carrying his own luggage, apologizing for past behavior, and demonstrating other unpopelike behavior, seemingly immune to potential consequences.  He authentically seems to believe that the kingdom of heaven is creating a sacred internal space which no one can touch.  Much like Bigger Thomas the chief character in Richard Wright’s Native Son, the pope apparently believes “No one can do anything but kill me and that ain’t nothin.”  In other words, he believes this life journey is but an instant and all we truly own is our integrity - the power to speak our truth for this moment while keeping eyes and ears open to new understandings. 
 
One will notice that the Pope did not suggest that we stone arms manufactures owners or employees. Following the teaching of Jesus, he is not intending to judge others but to lovingly point out the ways in which, even those who would call themselves Christians, can get off track; can fall into such traps as thinking more violent weapons are the path to peace.
 
Most of us do not have the responsibility or the power which comes with such leadership positions as that of Pope in the Catholic Church.  Most of us will not be featured in world news reports if we dare to suggest we have to apply the teachings of teachers such as Jesus to all aspects of our life. Sadly. most of us will not even publicly make such suggestions. Many of us humans will fall victim to the temptation to construct carefully worded justifications for exceptions to His teachings. We might, for example, suggest, as have some of our past leaders, the profit from arms sales can help to create an economy which benefits many poor people.  
 
Using the Holocaust as a reason to mistreat the Palestinian or past behavior of the Israelis toward Palestinians to justify the killings of October 7 might comfort some. Acting as if the actions of HAMAS or the bombing which took place on 9/11 occurred in a historical vacuum might seem to provide a rationale for more violence, even patriotic violence.  Persecuting those who disagree with these ways of thinking might also seem justified to some. One might be discounted or even threatened if one suggests we must love those we label as our enemy; that violence will never, long term, bring peace.  
 
We might expect the God of our understanding to bless us for lowering our voice to ensure no one is uncomfortable.  Yet, this beatitude; this teaching of Jesus suggests we are:
 
o  Expected to not allow any form of persecution to silence us.
o  Expected to do the next right thing even if threatened with punishment or worse.
o  Expected to let go of our attachment to this life journey and not allow fear to prevent us from attempting to live unpopular teachings of Jesus or other wise teachers.
 
We must, of course, always speak from a place of humility; knowing others might need to remind us of some teaching which we conveniently have ignored because it directly affects our privileged status.  We might be tempted to persecute those who we label as the persecutors forgetting that love applies even to those.
 
The reader will notice that I have ignored any further discussion of the concept of justice which I have attempted to address in other blogs.  I have simply suggested we consider some basic, seemingly radical teachings of this Jesus fellow; that attempting to ignore them has not resulted in a more loving and just world.
 
Written December 31, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
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Sunday Musings - December 24, 2023

12/24/2023

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​Sunday Musings - December 24, 2023
 
On this Christmas Eve whether one’s spiritual center is in the Christian tradition or some other, it seems especially appropriate we consider the seventh beatitude as stated in the writings of Matthew in what Christian’s term The New Testament - a sacred text such as are other texts for other religions.   
 
The seventh beatitude is “Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.”
 
Most of us have felt anger, had a judgmental or even violent thought.  I also suspect most of us have read a novel or watched a drama on the stage or screen and cheered when “the good”: character overpowered or even slayed the “evil or bad” character.   I further suspect it feels “natural” to wish ill on the person who seemingly enjoys benefiting at the expense of others or hurting their neighbor in other ways.   Many of us have enjoyed watching a sporting event when “our team” slayed, beat, pounded, destroyed, or humiliated the “other team”.  
 
Surely that Jesus fellow understood these feelings.  If stories are to be believed he occasionally lost it as he did with the money changers in the temple.  One can also imagine him saying “I have had with these humans.” before going to be alone in the desert.
 
Yet this is the same teacher who says, “Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of god.”   It is the same teacher who admonished us to “Love your neighbor as yours as you love yourself. Love your enemy. Let the person without sin throw the first stone.”
 
This may be the most challenging of the beatitudes.  We are being asked to see beneath the adult facade to see the young child trying to prove his or her worth; that young child masquerading as an adult; that innocent, lonely, fearful child with the mantle of leadership; that apparent adult using his or her privilege to oppress others.  We are expected to attempt to emulate or mirror the actions of a God/a Heavenly Father or mother who always sees beneath the behavior - beneath self-centered, even cruel behavior; behavior which may arise out of an addiction to power, drugs, food, things, or the corner office; behavior which threatens to destroy the memory of the image of  child in the mind’s eye; the image of that innocent, sweet baby wrapped in swathing cloth eager to suck on the nipple of their mother.  
 
The peacemaker is this person; the person who sees beneath those defenses; beneath the shiny or rusted armor; the person who hears beneath anger; the person who feels the possibility of love even as artillery shells are being launched toward one; the person who truly believes that no human has yet to devise a scientific accurate system for comparing “sin points”.
 
This is the good news which baby Jesus will bring:
 
  • The peacemaker will love the leaders of Hamas while reminding them love works better than violence.
  • The peacemaker will see the heart of the child which is hidden in the bodies of the leaders of Israel.
  • The peacemaker will pray for the child which resides in body of Putin.
  • The peacemaker will see beneath the actions of the child man/woman who committed mass murder in a school or any other place.
  • The peacemaker will work to provide safe treatment and not jail for the mentally ill.
  • The peacemaker will see the pain of the immigrants attempting to cross the Southern border while working with others to create a humane, realistic, loving immigration policy.
 
The peacemaker will borrow the talents of a musician.  In music when one wants to play or sing in a key other than what is on the written page, he or she learns to transpose the notes in the mind’s eye page.
 
  • Blessed are the transposers.
  • Blessed are the peacemakers for they are God’s eyes and ears.
  • Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God.
 
Let us celebrate this and all teachers who leaves the gift of this teaching under every holiday tree this Christmas. 
 
Written December 24, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
 
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Sunday Musings - December 17, 2023

12/16/2023

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 Sunday Musings, December 17, 2023 
 
Today I continue my reflections on the Beatitudes.  The sixth beatitude from Matthew 5:8 is: “Blessed are the pure in heart; for they shall see God.”  On the surface this beatitude presents two potentially confusing issues: (1) none of us humans are free from all impurities of our hearts and (2) most of us will not honestly be able to report that we have literally “seen God”.  
 
Jesus never claimed that we were less or more than human and although he did suggest that our perceptions and understanding would change, he did not suggest we would physically see God in this life journey.  We also know that Jesus sometimes spoke in parables.  Let us explore this teaching.
 
The Greek word katharos “literally means free from the admixture of anything that soils, adulterates or corrupts, hence clean, pure.” (studylight.org). I do not believe Jesus is suggesting that we humans can be completely free of any thoughts or feelings which conflict with His basic teachings.  Certainly, this human is never completely free of any unkind, judgmental, or objectifying thoughts for more than a millisecond.  I can, however, own and recognize such thoughts or feelings for just that – thoughts or feelings which requires no action or feeding.  They are just thoughts or feelings.  Consequently, if we humans want to approach a state of purity, we can be still, breathe and consciously allow, for the moment, those thoughts, or feelings to float away. If we notice that we have done something unkind we quietly notice and invite ourselves to come back to ourselves.
 
The Greek word for heart is kardia. It can mean the physical organ which pumps blood through the body which is essential for physical life.  Thayer Greek Lexicon also suggests that kardia can be used to denote the center of all physical and spiritual life. Thus, to be pure in heart can denote or suggest that we are intentionally opening ourselves to the possibility that we can love our neighbor as ourself; we can love our enemy; we can refrain from judging or throwing the first stone; we can accept that we are no better or worse than anyone else; we can accept that we always get what we need to grow spiritually.  We can allow the heart to lead.
 
If we are doing our best to be spiritually centered this teaching suggests we will see God. What could it mean in actual practice to see God?
The Greek word herein used for “seeing” is horao which may be used to denote literally or figuratively seeing.  (Christiancourier.com).   Many including D. R. Dungan suggests “the term refers to recognizing God in all the wonders of His creation.” (Hermeneutics, 18).
 
I suspect we humans, if we are honest, have judged an insect or a plant as just a pest only later to discover it has a role in the cycle of the universe.  I also suspect most, if not all, of we humans have adversely judged another human based on statue, perceived age, gender, costume/dress, or general appearance only to find out we completely misjudged who the person was.  I certainly have. To “see” God than might mean to see beneath our learned prejudices, categories, expectations, etc. Recently I nearly misjudged two different people when I was at the laundromat only to then discover underlying gems.
 
This beatitude reminds us to relax and be present to the sacredness of all that is.  This includes our own humanness; to just notice our tendency to experience life through our fear of ourselves, others and much of nature; to trust that it is safe to let go of the belief that we or others need to prove our worth; to trust in the paradox that Grace (God’s unconditional love) frees us from the perception that we need to prove our worth though power, possessions, knowledge, degrees, talent or costumes.
 
This teaching assures us that it is enough to be our authentic selves which then allows us to fulfill our part in the interdependence of all that is.
 
Blessed is the pure in heart; For they shall see God; for they shall dance.
 
Written December 17, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
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Sunday Musings 0 December 10, 2023

12/9/2023

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Sunday Musings - December 10, 2023
 
Today I continue with my reflections on the beatitudes.  Today the reflection is on Matthew, verse 7, “Blessed are the merciful; for they shall obtain mercy”.   
 
The Greek word used for mercy and merciful in Matthew is eleeo or eleemon from oleos.   Generally, the translation is forgiveness, forbearance, withholding of punishment, or compassion.  Occasionally, one might find it translated as pity although I think of pity as a negative patronizing term. 
 
The basic Hebrew word for mercy, rehamin, is the plural of “womb” and connects mercy to womb emotion - what a mother instinctively feels for the child of her womb.  Some theologians think of true mercy as something God as spiritual father exclusively can grant.
 
In the context of the New Testament and other teachings of Jesus when I think of mercy I think of the teachings as recorded in the New Testament or some part of the Old Testament. For example:
 
o   “Forgive my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass against me.”
o   “Love your enemy and pray for those who persecute you….”
o   “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven.” (Luke 6:37)
o   “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me?  Up to seven times?’  Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.” (Matthew 18:21-22)
o   “Get rid of all bitterness rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other’s just as Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32)
 
 
 
Jesus seems to make no distinction between the love of a mother for a child in her womb and the love he expects us to grant to all humans or even all of nature.
None of us have devised an equitable system for keeping score of how much each of us hurt self, each other and mother earth. In order to keep score one would have to arrive at a set of criteria for judging each hurt or transgression and then track the points per period of time for each of us. I have yet to see such a system which seemed fair, honest and scientific.
As I discussed in my previous musings, apparently Jesus and other wise people already knew what science is now telling us about the illusion of free will; the many factors which affect or determined each thought or plan of action.  One does not know why the mind of a particular person directs the actor to perform a certain behavior.  The contradiction seems to be that one must have free will to forgive or show mercy to the person.  Yet, if one looks more closely one knows that the act of mercy, compassion or forgiveness can be the result of being in balance with all that is.  Does one decide or allow oneself to be in balance? If one allows for that possibility, does that indicate free will?  I suspect Jesus and other teachers, including present day scientists, are suggesting that we not attempt to fight or block the “natural urge” to align with each other and, thus, to show compassion/forgiveness to ourselves and others.
Jesus as well as other teachers and scientists seem to be stating there is a window of opportunity -what appears to be free will - which allows for the possibility we can stand still and allow ourselves to align with all other people and the rest of the universe. This would mean, for example, that the Israeli people could align with the kinship with their Palestinian brothers and sisters; allow for even more than peaceful co-existence.  This would mean the Palestinians could see beneath the history of mistreatment and greet the Israeli people as brother and sister.  If we sit quietly long enough with our brothers and sisters, no matter what their past behavior, we will connect with their hearts and not the defensive shell of anger, violence, etc.
We all want and many of us expect mercy.  Jesus is clearly stating, “If we want mercy we must be open to granting or allowing it.”   No exceptions.  The way to peaceful co-existence is not more violence.  It is to override our fear and open our hearts to forgive and love; to show the mercy we want to receive.
 
Written December 9, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
 
 
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Sunday Musings - December 3, 2023

12/2/2023

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Sunday Musings - December 3, 2023
 
For many Christians today is the first Sunday of advent; the period for Christians to prepare for the celebration of the birth of Jesus.  Christians believe Jesus was and is the Messiah; the anointed one; the savior; the one who “sits on the right hand of God; one of the trinity.
  
Christmas is for many others a secular holiday on which they celebrate the sharing of gifts.  Sadly, for some, these gifts may represent the God of commercialism who demands one must ignore budgets and outdo their neighbor in cost and/or size of gifts.  For others, regardless of religious beliefs, the gifts are more about sharing of oneself and the gifts with which one has been blessed.
 
There are several other celebrations in December including:
 
Bodhi Day (Dec. 8). Buddhist; the day Buddha achieved enlightenment.
 
Feast Day of your Lady Guadalupe – patron saint of Mexico
 
Hanukkah - This ritual symbolizes how one day’s worth of oil miraculously. 
lasted for eight days during a battle between a small group of Jewish people
and the powerful Greek-Syrian army in 165 B.C. Per Jewish tradition, they
are said to have emerged victorious and reclaimed the Holy Temple in
Jerusalem.
 
Yule (Dec. 21-Jan.1)
Wiccans and Neo-Pagans celebrate the winter solstice
 
This first Sunday of Advent is also the fourth Sunday on which I invite readers 
to consider what Jesus might have been teaching in the
Beatitudes as contained in New Testament book of Matthew.  The
beatitude on which I will now briefly reflect is:  
 
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness for they 
shall have their fill.”
 
As is always the case when one considers a teaching or lesson written in 
a language other than one’s own, it is important to make translation 
decisions. In this case we must consider the word which is translated in the 
New Testament as righteousness.  The Greek noun is Disaiosune; the 
adjective is Dikaos and the verb Didaioo.   Many translators have suggested. 
the English word justice best conveys the meaning Jesus intended.  In 
Plato’s republic Disaiosune is also usually translated as justice.   
 
We are still left with the fact that many volumes have been written attempting to define the parameters or characteristics of justice.   For the purpose of our discussion, I am going to suggest if we want to understand justice we look to other teachings of Jesus regarding the behavior which honors the fact all existence is interconnected.  When we mistreat one part of all that is, we mistreat all. When we honor one part of all we honor all. There is ample scientific evidence this is the case.
 
It is also important we consider Jesus, the teacher, says “Blessed are 
those who hunger and thirst after righteousness.”  He does not say, “Blessed
are those who achieve righteousness.”  We are expected to honor the fact all  
are imperfect; will hurt self and others.  This helps to make sense of many 
of his teachings such as:
 
·      Love thy neighbor as thyself.
·      Love your enemy. 
·      Let him/her who is perfect throw the first stone.
·      Feed the hungry – share your loaf of bread so that it feeds many.
·      Clothe the naked – those who need clothes to protect them from the cold and the heat.
·      Open the gates of the prisons – this does not preclude lovingly restraining those who are unable to consider the needs of others.
·      Expect forgiveness as one forgives others.
·      Offer the other cheek.
 
We could list many more day-to-day behaviors which Jesus might consider just; which would help us move towards being our better selves and, thus, honor the oneness of all.  I am endlessly fascinated by the fact that the teachings of Jesus seem to mirror what science is now validating; many factors affect the behaviors our mind chooses; many factors call into question what we like to think of as free will - the factors which affect or result in our thinking and behavior.  Jesus might easily have been thinking of study results reported by Robert Sapolsky, professor of biology and neurology at Stanford, in his most recent book Determined: A Science of Life Without Free Will.”
 
How can one hunger and thirst after justice if one has no free will?  This is a fair question.  The teachings of Jesus direct us to do what comes naturally if we are well fed, well clothed and housed, treated with respect and love, and free of war and other traumas. Jesus is really talking to those of us who are privileged to have all we need to “naturally” move toward restoring ourselves and others to their healthiest selves while honoring the fact that some may never have brains which are able to do this.

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness.  Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after justice.  Blessed are those who are privileged to care for those whose brains cannot care for themselves and others; cannot honor the sacredness of all that is.
 
Written December 3, 2023
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 

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