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Meditations for Lent - #35

4/9/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #34
 
The suggested Gospel reading for today is John 8:21-30.  As I read and then meditated on this passage, three verses stood out to me: 
 
So, Jesus said to them, “When you have lifted up the Son of man, then you will know that I am he, and that I do nothing by my own authority, but speak just as the Father taught me. And he who sent me is with me.  He has not left me alone, for I always do the things that are pleasing to him..” And as he was saying these things, many believed in him.
 
Late last evening I was responding to someone I love and respect. He suggested that we need to be careful about judging others based on political correctness. Sometimes political correctness, he went on to say, negates the fact that some people such as him work hard to achieve what they have.   It is true that this very good man and his wife are very generous with their time, energy and money. They are also very attentive, hands on parents.  They are  very blessed with keen intelligence, good educations, a strong faith and clarity of purpose. They are physically and mentally abled.
 
This morning I had a message from someone who is$350.00 behind on his electric.   He has been out of work part of the winter. Seemingly this was partly out of choice. Yet, I also know this man suffers from some mental illness and, thus, experiences life and potential choices much differently than I.   He is also a very loving man within the limit of his financial and mental abilities.  No matter how hard he works he will never have the resources of the man to whom was talking last night.
 
Unlike Jesus,  I am seldom sure that I am behaving in a way which is pleasing to the God of my understanding.   I frequently question what I do or do not  do as I walk with others while they question what is the right or the moral behavior.  This morning I am questioning whether it was mean spirited of me not to find the money to pay the electric bill of the one man.  I am also questioning whether my response to the man whose hard work has been richly rewarded was as kind and understanding as it could have been.  When do I need to just listen to the opinion of others and when do I need to engage in a dialogue/debate?
 
I remind myself that I am not Jesus.  I do carry  a wise voice within me.  That wise voice is the same one I consult regarding parenting issues.  I can also consult that wise voice regarding situations such as the ones I have briefly described.  That voice reminds me:
  • You can seek the guidance of others.
  • You do not have to make the perfect decision.  Just make the decision which seems the most open and loving.
  •  Check your motives. Are you trying to look good or being genuinely kind?   Do you need to be right or have the other person like you? Are you attempting to earn points with the God of your understanding?
  • Are you open to all possible answers to your prayers or are you wanting to dictate the question and the answer?
 
Written April 9, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
Coachpickett.org
 
 
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Meditations for Lent - #33

4/8/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #33
 
The suggested Gospel reading for today is John 8:12-20 which states in verse 12: “Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.”     I suppose one could follow the example of theologians and others who have written volumes about this claim of Jesus.  One could have a lengthy discussion about what it means for Jesus to claim that he is the son of God and it is by God’s authority that he speaks.  One could ask as does Barbara Brown Taylor in her book Holy Envy – Finding God in the Faith of Others, if this God – this Father – of whom Jesus speaks is the same God and father that other religions worship.  Is the God to which Jesus refers unique to the Jewish people?  We could also ask what it means to have the light of life?  Is the light of life that same one we see through the eyes of young , healthy and safe children who see the world as other parts of themselves with which they can connect?  Is the light of life that same one we see in adults who are absorbed  in and who absorb the love of another from across the crowded room knowing they have met “the one”?  Is being the light of life the necessary outcome of taking that leap of faith and trusting that it is enough to just be oneself?
 
I have seen that light in the eyes of the parents of a new born during those exciting moments when they are introduced to the child who has just emerged from the womb.  I have seen the light in the eyes of the person who has no more secrets; who has no need to prove to prove their worth through the use of titles, possessions or conquests.  It is enough to simply be.   Is it merely a coincidence that the God of the Old Testament identifies as “I am”?    Are we closer to God; to being absorbed into that light and, thus, becoming the light at that moment when we are able to identify simply as “I am”? 
 
We could ask what it means to follow Jesus?  Does it mean that unless one professes that one is saved by the blood of Christ and acknowledge Him as the only son of God who was born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, suffered death, was buried and on the third day rose again to sit on the right hand of the Father and will come to judge the living and the dead one is doomed to an eternity of punishment?  Does it mean that the Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Hahira Krishnas,  Buddhists and all who use the framework of other religions are doomed to an eternity of punishment?
 
The young exploring baby has not professed his or her faith in the Nicene Creed.  The one who has fallen in love is not thinking of the words of the Nicene Creed.  The one who delights in just being may never have heard the words of the disciples.
 
It is only possible to fully love when we have no agenda. It is only possibly to have no agenda if we are able to celebrate our own sacredness.  It is only possible to fully enter into “I am” state if we are at peace with our humanness.  It is only then we are the light?   Perhaps!
 
Written April 8, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
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Meditations for Lent - #32

4/7/2019

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Meditations for Lent - # 32 – 5th Sunday in Lent
 
The suggested Gospel reading for today is a famous passage from John 8:1-11 which contains the story of the scribes and the Pharisees seeking again to test Jesus.  Jesus is in the temple when they bring a woman to him who was caught, we are told, in the very act of adultery.    I suspect that the scribes and the Pharisees think that they have a clear case.  If Jesus does not follow the law of Moses and orders her stoned to death they will have publicly confirmed that he is soft on crime and is not concerned with the laws. They already suspect that is the case and seek to “out him” as the unrealistic, soft hearted liberal that he is.   Jesus does not disappoint them but responds in a way which puts them in a position of lying and sinning  or taking a more compassionate view of the woman.    Jesus simply tells them that it is fine for the one among them without sin to throw the first stone.   No one throws a stone.  He simply tells the woman to go and sin no more.  
 
The reader of this story has no idea with whom or why this woman was having a sexual relationship. It was someone other than her husband.   Was she in an arranged marriage but in love with someone else? Did her husband beat her and she looked for comfort with another man?  Was she forced into a sexual relationship with the other man?  Did she and the other man just experience a very human moment and “find themselves” impulsively acting on a moment of passion?  Was she earning a little extra money?  Was she being blackmailed?   The reader is not given a hint of the reason for her behavior.   It is doubtful that either the scribes or the Pharisees knew why she was engaging in an adulterous relationship.    Jesus does not seem to care why she did it.  Time and time again, Jesus appears to not be shocked that us humans are far from perfect.   He seems he would not have made a good prosecutor, politician, business person or judge.  He did not seem to be big on punishment as a deterrent to crime.  He would not have supported the three strikes laws.  I suspect he would not have been a supporter of the policy of incarcerating people for long periods of time in the United States; a system which has a very high recidivism rate.  I suspect he would be a bit better at diagnosing the problem which led to the criminal act.  He might even have been a leader in  using science to change various laws. He might have said that such and such law no longer makes sense given the scientific knowledge now available.   He was also “soft” in other ways. He seemed to see people as more than a particular behavior.   He might have suggested that those who are incapable of considering the needs of others need to be treated with love and respect even if they need to be restrained in some manner.   He would laud  those business people who are determined to give many a second or even 5th chance.  He might have seen addiction as a chronic illness.  He might have suggested that all those politicians who ignore the health care needs of the average citizen but give themselves a gold standard health care plan for life apply the test of fairness.

Many of us are good at throwing stones at others.   Some of us are good at throwing stones at ourselves.  One of the challenges of this Jesus fellow is to look at who we are; to focus on taking the log out of our own eye (with compassion); to see each of us as very bright, compassionate, loving, impulsive, fragile, strong, weak, fallible humans being who are yet sacred and worth a second or third or tenth chance.    Here we are reading and then praying about today’s lesson while struggling to hold on to our right to throw the first stone.  God laughs – with love.
 
Written April 8, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
Coachpickett.org
 
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Meditations on Lent - #31

4/6/2019

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Meditations on Lent - #31
 
The Gospel lesson suggested for this day of Lent is John 7:40-53
 
It has been my experience that most of us want to be moral people.  Sometimes, however, our ego strength is so weak – our sense of self-worth is so low – that we find ourselves compromising our core values to prove that we are worthwhile. There is no more poignant example of this than the fact that even in the  Nazi death camps a licensed physician signed all the death certificates. Robert J. Lifton in his book The Nazi Doctors gives this example of the attempt of the Nazi regime to legitimize their cruel, immoral behavior.  The doctors justified their behavior by making the state the physician and comparing the killing many people to amputating limbs to keep a person alive.  As horrible as this was it does show the attempt by the regime and the physicians to convince themselves that they could be moral.    We may like to think that we could never do something so horrible but a careful study of history reveals that every immoral activity, no matter how horrendous, began with small compromises to our values. We compromise because we are frightened, because we feel like we need approval from a certain group of people,  or we need to prove our worth by getting a promotion or impressing someone.  We may also convince ourselves that all people are cruel and we need to protect ourselves by hurting others before they hurt us. 
 
In today’s Gospel lesson John recounts, a story of the guards coming back to the Temple and being confronted by the Chief Priests and Pharisees about not arresting Jesus. They reply that they have never heard a prophet speak this way. The Chief Priests and Pharisees then ask, “Has he deceived you too?” 
 
Most of us desperately want to be moral people.  Yet, we do not want our comfortable little haven disturbed.  We convince ourselves that black people get arrested more because they break the law more. We convince ourselves that we as a country represent good and, often, even the will of God, while the South and Central American Countries are corrupt and poor managers.  We discard our history of actions based on our self-interests because we do not have the self-esteem to face our own history.  We label those fleeing violence and extreme poverty criminals, lazy people, or drug dealers to justify our cruel behavior. We need to hold on to our self-image as righteous, good people who mostly obey the God of our understanding.  We ignore the prophets of today so that we do not have to be the one standing up for the shooting of an unarmed black man or the one confronting the politician getting wealthy by supporting a vested interest. We cheat a little on our taxes, do not stand up for the one being bullied, and do not tell our companions that a racist, sexist or homophobic joke is offensive. We tell ourselves that what  women wear causes them to be raped; that selling weapons for profit to many different groups or countries or  taking a large salary – more than we need – is moral even though the clerk or the janitor is not making a living wage. 
 
We want to know that we are important; that we are worthwhile; that somehow others that we hurt cause us to be hurtful.
 
In this season of Lent we – as individuals and as religious organizations - are confronted with the challenge to accept Grace; to accept that we are worthwhile; that we do not have to have titles, money, positions, popularity, a large house or the approval of a clearly immoral/spiritually challenged  political group.  We are enough. We can hold fast to those core values which says all are sacred; all are equally worthwhile; all are the least of them; all are the called to love and be loved.  This leap of faith will give us the faith and the clarity to stand up – not self-righteously but with love and humility.    We do not need the guards to arrest him/her.
 
 
Written April 6, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 
 
 


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Meditations for Lent - #30

4/5/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - # 30
 
As I read the Biblical lessons in John 7:1-2, 10, 25-30 and Psalm 34:17-21,23 I was again reminded of the courage it takes to do what feels right.  I reread the word of the Psalmist claiming that the Lord hears the righteous and will deliver their trouble. Evil will slay the wicked. I reread the account in John of some of the last days of Jesus knowing the crucifixion will soon take place.  Obviously when these words were written the authors had on rose colored glasses and did not have instant access to news we now have. Jesus will be crucified.   The righteous will face terrible troubles.  Very hurtful deeds will continue to visit the righteous and the unrighteous.  The story of the resurrection not withstanding, no matter how much one stands firm for behavior which honors the sacredness of all creation, mother nature, other animals and other humans, tragedy continues to visit.   Hurricanes, earthquakes, tornadoes, cyclones, forest fires, floods and mud slides continue to destroy the kind and the unkind equally.  Mental illness which prevents empathy; which prevents the ability to consider the needs and rights of others; affects an ever-increasing number of people.  Daily, young men and women are dying from drug overdoses or drugs laced with substances which quickly kill.  Millions of children and their parent(s) are living in refugee camps.  One percent of people hold the majority of wealth. Children and adults are dying because greed prevents access to health care.
 
Not the God of the. Old Testament nor the Jesus of the New Testament are doing much to help “the least of these” or any others. There is seemingly no fairness; no reward for loving or responsible behavior.  Very few people can escape news of the reality of life for most of us humans.
 
William DuBois was a very laudable person whose life  comforts and inspires many.  Maya Angelou’s strong, positive voice which arose out of the scars of racism, sexism,  sexual abuse and many other hardships continues to give many hope and comfort.   Richard Wright in the voice of Bigger Thomas continues to declare, “You can’t do nonthin but kill me and that ain’t nonthin.”    People I know donate money so that a woman can cremate and honor her brother who died of a drug overdose.  The women who have been waiting tables at a local diner for many years continue to welcome customers as if they are stopping by the home place for a chat and a meal.    Soon Easter will arrive and the stone will be rolled away from the tomb.  The spring flowers will lead the way in proudly standing up without asking permission, apologizing for being them or competing with the flowers next to them.
 
There is human time and what I sometimes call universal time or God time.  My vision is very limited.  Even at  my advanced age I “forget” that, at most, this life journey is very brief; that I have absolute control over how well I love today; how tall l stand up for the rights and dignity of all people; how much I allow my heart and not greed to direct my action in all parts of my life; whether I choose to exercise, eat decently and allow others to love me today.
 
Jesus walks in Jerusalem causing some to wonder if the authorities have decided he is to be recognized and honored as the Messiah. He simply replies that it is not the hour. 
 
Today I shall attempt to think and act in God time. I shall trust that it is enough to do my best to channel the wise heart of William DuBois or Maya Angelou.  Today I shall  show up with as much love as this human can muster and smile at human time.
 
Written April 5, 2019
Jimmy  F Pickett
Coachpickett.org
 
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Meditations for Lent - #29

4/4/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #29
 
As I read todays suggested Gospel reading of John 5:31-47 I was acutely aware of how much I empathize with those who have confused faith in a God of their understanding with the fallible nature of human religious institutions and humans in general.  I am also aware that  children are often told to trust their parents, teacher or other adults only to find out that adults lie to children.  Whether it is a simple lie such as “Tell me the truth and I will not get mad.”, a larger lie, “I will keep you safe.”  “A  lie is not a lie.”,
 Murder is not murder.”,  Immigrants at the border are all criminals,.”, “Punishing people creates a safer community.”, or  “You did not see what you saw or hear what you heard.” adults challenge the wisdom of children trusting adults.   Children are often lied to about god.  They are  told to pray to a god, be good and god will reward you in ways you can understand and experience. If not God, is going to be angry and punish you.
 
Is it any wonder that so many individuals question if there is any reality other than what they create for themselves; that there is any reason to postpone immediate gratification or that there is a greater reward than a good job, a safe home or a loving partner?  Trust seems to be a troubling  issue for all people, but it a particularly difficult issue for those seeking  a life of recovery from active addiction to alcohol, other drugs, sex, power or anything else which numbs one even for a moment .   When folks are introduced to a faith-based program of recovery - a 12-step program -they are quickly told that they will need to trust a god of their understanding.  Yet, often one factor for avoiding  life on life’s term was the fact that nothing in their experience led them to believe that they could safely trust other people or a higher power.
 
Sponsors or treatment staff working for/with those in early recovery for addiction or other disorders suggest that a high power can be “GOD – good, orderly direction”  or the 12- step recovery process.  It can be one other person with significant time in working and living a recovery program. It can be an acceptance of the intricate, interdependent design of the universe.  Recently I was listening to a scientist excitedly describe the design of various proteins in the human body and how  other parts of the human body recognize and interact with each design.  Other scientists can describe how various parts of the universe work as a unit and what happens when something is done to disturb that balance.  For me it is not much of a stretch to imagine that how I treat myself affects how I play my role in the operation of the universe. What does one call that “whole”?  Does one call it God or “I am”, Allah,  Buddha or some other name?  Does it matter what one calls he/she/it?   All scientific evidence points to the fact that humans are social animals; that we need to acknowledge and allow ourselves to be connected with each other and the other parts of the universe.   Whether we  accept this “fact”  based on scientific evidence or because of faith based on a religious framework does not seem to matter.   When Jesus talks about humans being saved he is, I believe, talking about connecting; about letting go of that void we experience when we are disconnected.   To be disconnected is to be adrift; to be in that  alone place which seems to corresponds to that place which some describe as hell; as that place of eternal damnation.  This then is the promise of Jesus; the promise of connection; the promise of being an essential part of a whole.

Written April 4, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
 



 
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Meditations for Lent - #29

4/3/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #28
 
The Gospel lesson today is John 5:17-30.  When I read this lesson, perhaps because I am a father, perhaps because I see a lot of families in my counseling practice or perhaps because I talk to so many men who have a very distance relationship with their father my focus is on the loving relationship Jesus describes himself as having with his spiritual father.   Jesus talks a lot about his father’s role as a teacher.   
 
I am sure that many of us have heard a parent – even perhaps ourselves – say, “Do as I say, but not as I do.”   All of us know, of course, that the child is much more likely to copy the parent’s behavior than to do what the parent says.  This is especially true of the same sex parent.   As a father I am particularly  concerned with what we are teaching our sons both by our behavior and by what we say.  How many of us have had discussion with our sons about such subjects as:
 
  • What does it mean to be a man?
  • What sort of relationships do we want with other men?
  • What sort of relationships do we want with women?
  • What does it mean to have an equal partnership with women based on talents, interests and skills?
  • Why has there been so much opposition to the equal rights amendment in the United States?
  • What is our history of racism and how does racism affect our country today?
  • What is the role of guns and gun violence in our families, our community and our nations.
  • What are our core values? Are they action values?
  • What is our responsibility as sexual beings?
  • Why do so many hide fears and doubts by numbing with alcohol, other drugs, power, money, bullying behavior, food or sex?
 
Some may not have a biological father who is living or otherwise able to have these  discussions or model this behavior. As elders we  all responsible for helping each other share this role.    Just as Jesus talks about looking to his father for guidance so we must  be present to our biological children if we have them and to all the other males in the community.  While we are teaching we are also learning from the young males. Jesus introduced a new vision of his spiritual father as one who is always forgiving, always open to a discussion, always treating everyone as equally deserving of Grace.  We, too, must we be open to expanding our view of what it means to be a father and an elder.  We can , I believe, be open to looking at ourselves in new ways – as both the teacher and the student.  We will, of course, do this job imperfectly but we can challenge each other to be more intentional about the questions and how we listen to the answers.


Written April 3, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
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Meditations for Lent - #27

4/2/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #27
 
On this day of Lent the suggested Gospel reading is John 5:1-16 which is another of the stories about Jesus healing the sick. This story takes places near the pool in Jerusalem which, when stirred up by an angel, is said to be healing. Jesus goes up to one man lying on his bed and asks, “Will thou be made whole?”  “Will you be healed?” The man answers that he has been physically unable without help to get in the pool while the water was still stirred up.   Jesus then tells him to, “Rise, take up thy bed and walk.”  The man was immediately able to do just that.  Some of the religious folks then complained that it was unlawful to carry one’s bed or otherwise work on the sabbath. 
 
We are not Jesus and we cannot heal ourselves and others by just pronouncing someone well.  Soon I will leave to work for/with individuals at an addiction treatment center.   I and other staff members will ask, “Are you ready to heal/recover?  Are you ready to surrender  to the tough work of learning to change the habits of thinking and behavior which feed the addiction?  Are you ready to take some “good, orderly advice” – to trust the God of your understanding to give you the strength and willingness to do this work?  
 
Some may say to that same addict, “This is the only way to do recovery.  These are the rules.” Some of us think that there are only prescribed ways to work a spiritual program.  There are many who are sure that there is one right way to do every job; that there is the right set of religious rules.  One of the aspects of the 12-step program I respect is “the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop the addictive behavior.”  Clearly, if one is going to be successful in claiming or reclaiming “a new way of living” one must practice the principles of the HOW – honestly, open mindedness and willingness.  No one in the program can tell one what spiritual or religious base to use, but one has to do the work.
 
I recently heard Jessica Lynch, the former POW talk about the process of regaining her physical and emotional health – of learning to retrain her legs and other parts of her body. Reclaiming her life demanded enduring a lot of painful, tough, days; months and months of hard work.  First she has to have a desire to get well, be open minded to the medical team working with her, be honest about what she was doing or not doing and be willing to do the hard work.


There are no short cuts to doing the work of spiritual growth.  Sadly,  many of us spend more energy thinking about and avoiding the work then we would spend just doing the work.


Do we want to grow?  Are we ready to surrender to the God of our understanding? Are we ready to pick up our bed and walk toward the light? Are we ready to quit looking for shortcuts; for the magical pill which makes growth easy?  Lying there on the bed whining about everyone getting to the pool prior to one is not going to lead to healing. Jesus is perfectly willing to allow the man who had been ill to continue lying there.  He asks him, “Wilt thou be made whole? Are you ready to surrender?  Are you ready to do the hard work of learning to walk again?
 
Daily we must all answer these questions.  If we are not ready the god of our understanding will honor our choice.  We and our loved ones must live with the consequences of that decision.
 
Written April 2,2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
 
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Meditations for Lent - #26

4/1/2019

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​Meditations for Lent - #26
 
Earlier today I was thinking that a good summary  title for today’s Lenten meditation might be “Jesus smiles”.   The suggested Gospel lesson is John 4:43-54 which includes the story of Jesus healing the official’s son who was reported to be near death. Jesus pronounced that the son will live even though he did not go near the son. The story goes on to say that the fever of the son broke when Jesus said he would live.   Jesus is reported to have said, “Unless you see signs and wonders you will never believe.” 
 
Yesterday I attended a birthday party for a friend who turned 70.  All of the adults at the part were there because they know that the woman celebrating her birthday is worth loving.  I do not think any of them had the illusion that she was perfect although her grandchildren may not yet have figured out she is less than perfect. Perhaps they have not yet realized that it is not okay to be human.   The wonderful parents seem to adore the children and I know that they have been eager to make sure that each of their children receive what the need without any suggestion that they need to be something other than what they are.  If they continue on their current path they will not need to be healed as adults.  While it is true that they will each have some body parts which may need attention at times, they are now spiritually whole.  They do not need signs and wonders to convince them that they belong although they will, as they age, hear various definitions of worth and success.  They parents and their grandmother as well as all the godparents or adopted aunts and uncles will continue to assure them that it is safe for them to accept the unconditional love and acceptance which is the birthright of all of life including us humans.  They will continue to receive the message that the God of one’s understanding has assured them of eternal life; that as pure energy their essence is  neither created nor destroyed.  While they may struggle in the years to come to claim and reclaim their essential place and function in this life journey they will never require healing although they may require a reassurance that they are enough.
 
Many of those present at the birthday celebration were already aware that this life journey is only, at the most,  two minute long.  Whether this ends in this second or the next does not really matter. All we are required to do is to show up as we are to love and to honor our essential place in the intricate design of the universe (s). If we forget this fact we can heal each other; we can return ourselves to ourselves.
 
While those of us who are parents get attached to the ideal that our children should outlive us,  they will stay as long as they stay.  If they stay only one minute before going on to the next stage our job during that one minute is merely to love. 
 
I just received a text telling me a young man who recently graduated from a treatment program for which I work as a volunteer died of a drug overdose this morning.   Those of us who knew this man can be assured that we did our healing work of loving him unconditionally. We embraced him and assured him we were there no matter what.  This did not keep the disease of addiction at bay for long but we did our part.
 
When we do our part of returning each other and ourselves to ourselves; when we perform spiritual healing by loving each other unconditionally Jesus smiles and reminds us that we did well.   I am sure that Jesus also smiled with the man who died as he held out his arms to welcome him back to himself; to welcome him from the chains of doubts and lies.
 
Written April 1, 2019
Jimmy F Pickett
coachpickett.org
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